Why Do We Settle?

Don't settle for anything less than you deserve. No one should.  We hear it often enough, don't we? But do we really take it to heart and practice it in our daily life? Many people settle for various reasons. Be it because of fear, or because they do not know any better. Surprisingly, a lot of people settle for less ...

Successful Single Women

English | Chinese The successful single women in Asia are called, "The Leftovers". If you are single, highly educated, successful, and are still not married by age 30 - you will be considered as the "leftover women". And I suppose, the divorced women or single mothers will be at the bottom of that "scrap-heap". My favourite (sarcasm) paragraph from ...

My latest article for Huffington Post

Hi everyone, I had a lovely Thanksgiving surprise yesterday. My latest article for Huffington Post has been published! In this article, I shared the 5 important lessons I have learnt after my divorce. Here is a little snippet from the post :- "Sometimes we do not know how much a decision will impact us until it is done. This is ...

Poem: The Break Down

Note: This is Part Two of my poetic duet with Desiree, whereby she takes on the voice of “The Wife” and I take on the role of “The Husband”. For Part One of our poetic duet, please go here.    THE WIFE Another night of turned backs Silence deepening marital cracks Her physical touches continually spurned Her weary ...

Poem: The Silenced Conversation

Note: This is a poetic duet between Desiree and myself. It is supposed to be a “silent conversation” between an imaginary wife and husband. Here, Desiree plays the "wife", and I took on the role of the “husband”. Kindly please switch to desktop or laptop if you're viewing this from your phone.   THE WIFE I’m your wife. Know me. I’m a ...

A Fearless Milestone for Huffington Post UK

Today marks a very personal and fearless milestone for me in terms of my social media work, and my publishing and writing journey. I got published in Huffington Post UK, and has been accepted as one of their team of bloggers. My first post with Huff Post UK is all "tongue in cheek", of which you (my ...

My first published article for the Elephant Journal

Today was a day filled with many pleasant surprises. It is enough to make one grateful and feel extremely blessed to be alive. My very first article for Elephant Journal is published today. It's entitled, The Story of Absence. In this article, I presented a chronology of my personal "disintegration" leading to my divorce. I believe, many women ...

Guest Blog: A Letter to my Ex

I had the priviledge and honour to guest blog for a dear fellow blogger-friend, Charlotte Lea. I am a big fan of her blog and writing. Therefore, I chose to do something personal that is worthy of her blog, and our friendship. Her blog, The Good Girl Confessional is a treasury of beautiful sharing. She ...

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