Fearless First Video blog

My dear fearless friends and fans, I am delighted to present my first vblog (video blog) to all of you. This vblog features my thoughts on Christmas and the year to come, and personal insights. My special guest is none other than Ms. Jamie Khoo of Effortless Beauty fame! Jamie and I go way back. For one, we were both ...

成功的单身女人

English | Chinese 在亚洲,成功的单身女人被称为“剩女”。 如果你单身、拥有高学历和事业成功,但是在三十大关还没结婚,那你就是别人口中的“剩女”。我想以此类推下去,离婚的女人或单亲妈妈简直就是盘底那隔夜的剩饭了。 我最喜欢(真讽刺!)这篇《纽约时报》刊登过的文章: “漂亮的女生不需要高学历来嫁入豪门,但是长相平凡或不漂亮的女生则拥有不同的际遇。这一类平凡女子希望利用学历来增加她们的竞争能力。但不幸的是,她们没有意识到女人会随着年龄增长而贬值,当她们考获硕士或博士学位时,青春早已逝去,就像发黄了的珍珠。” (more…)

Successful Single Women

English | Chinese The successful single women in Asia are called, "The Leftovers". If you are single, highly educated, successful, and are still not married by age 30 - you will be considered as the "leftover women". And I suppose, the divorced women or single mothers will be at the bottom of that "scrap-heap". My favourite (sarcasm) paragraph from ...

My latest article for Huffington Post

Hi everyone, I had a lovely Thanksgiving surprise yesterday. My latest article for Huffington Post has been published! In this article, I shared the 5 important lessons I have learnt after my divorce. Here is a little snippet from the post :- "Sometimes we do not know how much a decision will impact us until it is done. This is ...

The New Fearless

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Hello everyone, It is with great pleasure that I welcome all of you to my newly revamped blog. Same address. Different look. New logo. What do you all think about it? Please do write to me and share your thoughts. I would love to read them. This blog’s transformation mirrors my own in some ways. If you have been ...

The Cancer of May 2014

Firstly, I apologise for having been "missing-in-action" lately. I have not been writing, reading nor visiting other blogs and sites.  The month of May was not easy. It was, in a word, cancerous. This past month, we saw a few friends lose their loved ones to cancer. A few more have been battling with it. And now, ...

Poem: My Darling Child

My Dearest Child As much as it pains me I have to watch you Crawl through this Like how you learnt Your very first walk As much it tears me I can't banish Your fears or suffering I can't make them Disappear As much as I want to I can't do it for you You'll have to find  Your own strength Your own courage Because  When you do You will come To believe ...

How Fearless Shirley Got Hooked

Today, I got "Hooked". It was my  turn to be in the "Hot Seat" of 5 X 5. In other words, I had the great pleasure and honour to be featured in "5 x 5 with The Hook". I cannot thank HOOK enough for having me over. I had such a wonderful time being his guest that I ...

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